At what point do you get sick of missing out on potential dates? I feel like I identify girls who I'd like to potentially ask out, but I never do and they end up meeting someone else. I think that I let this happen on purpose so I don't risk rejection.
So far, no one has given me any suggestions for what to say to girls. it looks like I may go into the weekend without anything (though I'm still open...). It's also possible that I'm focusing on being funny/interesting too much. Instead, maybe I should just have a lot of boring conversations with girls and find the one who I connect with. The only thing about that is that I run the risk of being a boring conversationalist.
What do you think? Should I work on not being boring or should I not change anything and just try with more girls?
Thursday, June 11, 2009
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I'm sure you're not boring and the prefect girl out there would find you the most exciting person on the planet to be with. Just be yourself and it might mean that you get less girls as you're not directrly approaching them but eventually the right girl will find you when you least expect it (that or just get girls drunk!) :)
ReplyDeleteI think you should focus less on being witty and more on being yourself. If you give off false vibes, the girl isn't really getting to know you. Less lines, more honesty and natural charm.
ReplyDeleteWhen you stop looking...you'll find her :)